She finds you attractive and wants to make it clear, so you then approach her and start a conversation. She is just flirting with you and doesn’t care if you approach or not (e.g. she likes to get guy’s interested in her as she goes about her day).You remind her of someone she knows.She’s just randomly staring at you because she’s deep in thought or thinking about life.You have something unusual about you, (e.g. a weird haircut, a tattoo, a shirt with an interesting slogan) that she’s interested in.She likes your face/body/appearance/fashion sense so she’s looking at you, but she’s not necessarily interested in you.She wants to see if you have the confidence to maintain eye contact with her, rather than looking away quickly like most guys do.She wants to get random guys interested in her to make her female friends jealous that she is getting a lot of attention.She feels compelled to stare at you, but she doesn’t really know why. She’s just doing it.

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As you can see from the list above, trying to figure out exactly what is going on in a woman’s mind is usually a waste of time.

Even if a woman does like you, she won’t always show that by staring at you.

For example: Some women are shy, so even if she is really attracted to a guy, she might avoid looking at him in case they make eye contact.

If he approaches her, she might react by pretending not to be interested in him, even though she is secretly hoping he’ll sweep her off her feet.


For example: A man can feel attracted and willing to have sex and a relationship with a woman, regardless of whether she is nice, intelligent, or interesting to talk to.

If she looks good, almost all guys in the planet will be willing to stick it in her at least once and many of those guys will also be interested in a relationship.

On the other hand, a woman might stare at a guy and even think, “He’s cute…I think I might like him,” but in most instances, she’s not going to do anything about it.

She’s going to wait and see if he has the confidence to approach her and interact with her, or if he’s just another insecure guy who is afraid of women.

Only when she has interacted with him in person will she then make her decision about whether she will give him her number, have sex with him, or date him. Why?

Women can feel attracted to many different things about a man other than his appearance (e.g. his confidence, charisma, masculine vibe, humor, determination to succeed in life, ability to get along well with her and her friends).

A woman might be staring at a guy because she thinks he is good looking, but if she feels bored or turned off while interacting with him, she’s not going to want to have sex with him or date him just because he’s physically attractive.

Yes, some women will only date and have sex with very good looking guys, but the majority of women need to feel attracted to a man’s personality and behavior, rather than just mere looks.

So, when a woman stares at you, don’t waste time debating whether she really likes you or whether you’re good looking enough for her or not.

What her stare means really doesn’t matter when you have the confidence to approach her and make her feel attracted to you in other ways (e.g. make her laugh, make her feel girly in comparison to your masculinity, pass her confidence tests).

If you want her, then go and get her.

By triggering her feelings of sexual attraction she will become interested in you even if she initially thought she wasn’t, or that you weren’t her physical type.

If you’re not a very good looking guy, rather than stand around feeling insecure about it and hoping she’ll approach you, just walk over to her and let her experience your attractive personality traits during an interaction.

3 Steps to Get You Past the Staring Stage

If you are currently stuck about what to do to get from the staring stage to actually getting her to want to have sex or be your girlfriend, here’s what you need to do:

1. Approach her and make her feel attracted to you.

Stop waiting for women to make it extremely obvious that they are willing to be approached by you, before you will make your move.

Confidently walk up to her and focus on making her feel sexually attracted to during the interaction.

Don’t try and get her to like you by pretending to be an even nicer guy than you really are, because that will only make her think of you as a friend.

Simply focus on triggering her feelings of sexual attraction for you and the rest will follow naturally.

Attraction comes first and then everything else flows on naturally and easily after that.

If you need to build up some confidence to approach the kinds of women you find attractive, watch this video…

As you will discover from the video above, you are in control of how you use the power of your mind.

You can either use it to become and be confident, or to become more insecure and be that way for life.

2. Be a bit of a challenge.

It is fine to feel sexually attracted to a woman and even say, “You’re sexy…I like you,” but it is not fine to become so desperate to score with her that you stop expecting her to impress you further.

Women love guys who are a bit of challenge, because most guys are usually very easy to impress.

If a woman is attractive, most guys will have sex with her at least once and many of those guys will also be interested in a relationship…even if they don’t like her personality.

Women hate that.

So, rather than fall all over yourself to please her, hold back and allow your interest in her to rise and fall based on how well she is treating you.

Don’t reward her bad behavior by acting even more interested in her.

Have standards about what you like and dislike when interacting with women and then let her see (by way of your body language, vibe, conversation style) that you are losing or gaining interest in her based on how she interacts with you.

3. Don’t act like you want to be her friend, if you really want to be her lover.

Pretending that you only have friendly intentions with a woman is a mistake that can backfire.

While you are pretending to just want to be an innocent friend to her, you run the risk of some other guy coming along and triggering her feelings of sexual desire.

You’ve got to talk to her in a way that makes her feel turned on, as well as show her that you’re interested in her sexually by the way you look at her, or by telling her that you think she’s sexy.

If you act like a friend, that’s usually all you will end up being to her.

If you want sex or a relationship, focus on making her feel sexually attracted to you, not on trying to be an innocent friend.

It’s Your Move

You can sit around wondering, “What does it mean when a woman stares at you?” but the truth is that you’ll never know until you approach her.

Ultimately, her stare only means something if you want it to.

Just focus on making her feel sexually attracted and she’ll be yours.

It’s as simple as that.

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