I’ve a few male friends (I’m a girl, by the way) who tend to state a liking for women to be “dirty”, or “pure filth”. As in “See that Lily Allen, she’d get it, she looks like she’d be pure filth”.

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Which got me thinking… what do men consider “dirty” (in a good way)? I’m not talking about “wouldn’t touch that skanky ho” kind of girl, I’m talking about “Fwoarrrr… I bet she’s really dirty”.

I did discuss the definition with my male friends, but thought I would chuck the concept out amongst the good people of the Dope.


Llama_Llogophile January 2, 2010, 2:51pm #2

All of the above, ad infinitum.

The effect is multiplied when the girl presents an otherwise sweet and innocent demeanor.


Bartman January 2, 2010, 3:18pm #3
Mach Tuck:

All of the above, ad infinitum.

The effect is multiplied when the girl presents an otherwise sweet and innocent demeanor.

Yep. Must truly sincerely enjoy sex, in all (or at least most of) its permutations, with no hangups.


LouisB January 2, 2010, 3:35pm #4

I voted ‘other’ only because there is no category for “none of the above.”


bump January 2, 2010, 3:45pm #5

I always thought of it like this- she gives off a vibe that she enjoys sex, isn’t embarrassed about it, and gives a hint that she might let you in on the fun. Sort of a flirtatious thing- it’s not about what goes on behind closed doors, but rather what she hints at in public. “Dirty in a good way” girls tend to dress a little provocatively and talk a little inappropriately.

In reality… the quiet, mousey church girls are often the ones with multiple partners and bondage apparatus, but they’re not necessarily the ones that are “dirty in a good way”, because they don’t let on that they’re into that kind of thing.


Freudian_Slit January 2, 2010, 4:00pm #6

Wait–swallowing and battery operated are “dirty”? I thought most people swallowed, and vibrators are pretty commonplace. Where do you people live, Sweet Apple, Ohio?


BigT January 2, 2010, 4:30pm #7
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Freudian_Slit:

Wait–swallowing and battery operated are “dirty”? I thought most people swallowed, and vibrators are pretty commonplace. Where do you people live, Sweet Apple, Ohio?

You and MeanOldLady seem to have a lot of comments similar to this. You’d think by now you’d understand how conservative (with a little c) many Dopers are, relative to you.

Still, I have to agree with you. None of that stuff is really dirty anymore. It’s really just a girl who looks and acts like she likes wild sex. None of this stuff is particularly wild on its own. You’d pretty much have to have all of them, and then probably something else. You’d be physically and mentally exhausted by all the things you’d do.

The last option is really the best, as it’s the one that’s always there. The girl must like sex, and like it a lot. And it can’t be anywhere near vanilla, which is what I figure you mean by “risky.”


Annie-Xmas January 2, 2010, 4:33pm #8

Any sexual act with most “girl” is “dirty”–also disgusting, evil, sickening, and often illegal.

Most sexual activities with a consenting woman are not any dirtier than the same activity with a consenting man.

Both your non-sexist language skills and your sexual double standards need to be updated.


Freudian_Slit January 2, 2010, 4:35pm #9
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BigT:

You and MeanOldLady seem to have a lot of comments similar to this. You’d think by now you’d understand how conservative (with a little c) many Dopers are, relative to you.

Still, I have to agree with you. None of that stuff is really dirty anymore. It’s really just a girl who looks and acts like she likes wild sex. None of this stuff is particularly wild on its own. You’d pretty much have to have all of them, and then probably something else. You’d be physically and mentally exhausted by all the things you’d do.

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The last option is really the best, as it’s the one that’s always there. The girl must like sex, and like it a lot. And it can’t be anywhere near vanilla, which is what I figure you mean by “risky.”

Well, MeanOldLady is one of our smartest Dopers.

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But don’t most women like sex? I mean…I don’t know. I just get the vibe that this is all predicated on the assumption that the minute a woman does more than just tolerate sex, she’s some kinky superfreak, whereas most guys are assumed to like sex all the time/any time.